Hey, it’s Zaje’.

Lately, I’ve been feeling it, and if you’re here, chances are you’re feeling it too: that deep, soulful exhaustion that makes you want to throw in the towel. My girlfriend always says, “Enough is enough,” and honestly, it’s getting to that point where it feels like it’s either quit or go harder. But how do you “go harder” when you’re just… done? When you don’t want to try anything else, change anything else, or do anything else?

Here’s the wild truth, and my husband just reminded me of this: that’s often when it happens. That moment right before the breakthrough. We’re all pushing, doing, creating, waiting for that external sign.

The Secret Isn’t Out There, It’s In YOU.

The real work, the real power, is being able to find that feeling regardless. Can you find it when you’re at rock bottom? When nothing feels like it’s going right?

The answer is yes. You are the one who makes you happy. God makes you happy. And everything else? It’s going to fall into place. A lot of times, what we’re experiencing is just a resting period, a waiting period, for everything to catch up to us. 

For me, this blog, these videos, sharing my thoughts and feelings, trying to help – this is becoming my hobby. It’s about finding me every single day.

This message is for anyone who finds it, but especially for my fellow women, because our struggles are uniquely ours. So many women I talk to are just trying to get through the day. And I am too. I’m the person people come to, and I share my insights, my “downloads” from God.

I’ve bundled up so much to help you on your journey. On my website, becomingherself.com, you’ll find a wealth of resources, all designed to support you:

• Grab free resources: My “Focus Framework” workbook, a chapter from “Happy Habits,” and my song “Power” are waiting for you at becomingherself.com/newsletter.
• Dive into my music: Download the entire “Songs of Becoming” album at becomingherself.com.
• Interested in coaching? Email me at hello@becomingherself.com to express your interest.

So, whether you dive into the website or just carry this message with you, I thank you for being here. I hope it helps you today.

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